Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Corporate Rage Anger Management

Corporate Rage


In recent years with only 24 hours in a day available. There is no or very little time for everything tat every one of us want to do and achieve. Earlier there was enough time as the means were slower in nature and people had patience and calmly waited but now with faster means they just send an email/SMS and expect instant response. Therefore, consonances of delayed or no response could be damaging and the The cost of failure or under-performance is also accordingly high. Further, with very high salaries there's significant amount of greed and fear at play. People negotiate hard to come in and the contractual terms are also getting sharper day after day and have to pay back through demonstrated and measurable performance else bear the burnt. This can happen anywhere in a corporate office, on a workshop/factory shop floor, an offshore oil rig/sailing vessel, creative department of film production/advertising agency or in a BPO etc. This high pressure environment may result frustration, break down of patience, anger and finally in a new term in use called The Corporate Rage.


The Definition of Corporate Rage


It could be defined as the incident of a person getting Angry, violent and Losing one's cool at work place on his co workers or subordinates or in other words on the people under his direct or indirect control and includes the use of abusive, insulting, humiliating and derogatory language. It also includes the discriminatory and unjust treatment and inordinate behavior and conflicts.
Common Causes leading to Corporate Rage

- Job pressure
- Long hours at work
- Stress of daily living
- High employer expectations
- Pent-up anger
- High performance expectations
- Stiff targets
- Stiff cut thought competition
- People-centric demands
- Non performance

The ill Effects of Corporate Rage could visibly be seen on

- Individuals in their daily lives
- Corporate work cultures
- Corporate climates
- Organizational dynamics
- Channels of communication
- Job tenures and stability
- Social Fabric

To tackle this new phenomenon managers must show empathy to people with anger related problems. An individual must recognize that he has a problem and a counselor would help you do that. A lot of times people don't notice until they see a serious impact like say a persons yelling at his colleagues. Next, look for the triggers as the Anger is a secondary emotion and where could it be coming from? Is it a sense of frustration or being overwhelmed? Is it from getting less sleep, or about your role not being adequately defined? Sometimes we can change the external situation, or be empowered to cope better. I tell people to take brief vacations through the day. A lot of times we feel we are at the mercy of so many things outside of us. It is widely believed that one in every five persons in corporate world is likely to have issues related to anger management which may finally land him into corporate rage. The few Early WARNING SIGNS are: -

- A sense of resentment
- Not making eye contact in meetings
- Not having a healthy relationship with subordinates or team members
- Sudden irritability
- Frequently staying away from work
- Showing signs of passive aggressive behavior at the workplace
- Ready with the resignation over the smallest thing a boss or colleague says

The limited supply of talent is already forcing organizations to place less mature employees to higher responsibility positions. The end result may be that many out of them couldn't cope with the high pressure and people centric demands of their enhanced roles. these companies should put in place counseling lines and take the help of external experts to address and resolve these specific cases. In the West, stringent laws governing employee rights mean that the offender could face a real harassment or intimidating court case/lawsuit. There's no rallying call yet for corporates in Bharat Verse to take a notice of this anger as a real and big problem as t may backfire any time.

The Almighty

The Almighty 
 
 

He is Shadow of greenest of trees
He is nectar amrit water for mankind
He is first light of the morning sky
He is Companion the ultimate friend

He is response to prayers
He is joy and happiness to mankind
He is momentum of universe
He is Companion and the ultimate friend

He is redressing agent for earth
He is day and the night
He is the eternal
He is Companion the ultimate friend

He is the stress burster
He is the song of life
He is the Love
He is Companion and the ultimate friend

The Almighty Always Heard Me



 The Almighty



I begged the almighty
To provide me with magical powers
He gave toughness and strength
I begged the almighty
To provide me with brains
He gave wisdom and caliber
I begged the almighty
To provide me with wealth
He gave competence and capacity
I begged the almighty
To provide me with love
He gave sensuality and affection
I begged the almighty
To provide me with velour
He gave courage and bravery
I begged the almighty
To provide me with wishes
He gave opportunity and creativity
I never got that I wanted and begged for
I always got what I needed most

A Visit to the Ancestral Place


The Place of my Roots

In the recent past I visited the place where my roots belongs. That is where my ancestors lived for many centuries. The place falls in the Aravally Hills region. The part of it is Sandi and with limited vegetation. The place was scenic and people were simple and sober. We left the place long ago in search of better avenues but the ancestral Haweli is still in livable condition.

The places is in good condition and well maintained built in black stone and is rigid and strong enough for few more decades.

The Billa-Found and Lost

Sizu My Billa

If I can correctly recollect
it was an warm holiday morning
I was in relaxed mood seating in the poarch
Leisurely passing my free time
on an easy chair
It is when I felt some sensation on my feets
when over looked to my biggest surprise
It was an golden color kitten falling on feet
Let me tell you It was love on first sight
Even my kids love to have the creature
and we together decided to have it in the house
The kitten was Golden and beautiful small too
But very active and it played with me and kids
It slowly became the part and parcel of the house
Started sleeping on my bed and eating with me
All the arrangement were made for him
Even though it preferred to wonder out
His roaming out of home slowly increased
A day came when it did not come back
I am and my Kids are still awaiting
for his return
It has just become an another story of
The Golden Kitten Sizu found and lost

Monday, June 18, 2012

Burning My Desires

I wish to tell you every time
from bottom of my Flaring heart
held with in cyclonic chest of mine

Now it is almost a daily affair
to try control my burning desires
as to hold in to my burning hands

putting the storms under neath
to ultimate rest till climax and
let be erected for time being

But it just can not attain
the ultimate satisfaction
may be can achieve the orgasm

putting the winds to rest
Now it is an embedded habit
I suppose started enjoying it


bring the thoughts to standstill
giving the massage of life time
I just keep play around with it

Friendships for Lasting Forever

Friends are who;s presence around us
Brings joy and happiness with content
Provide meaning to co-existence
Generate understanding in relationships

We feel confident when friends around
Can conquer world with help of friends
Share sorrow and happiness with friends
Grow together for life time with friends

We find good friends only by sheer luck
There after friendship to be cultivated
Through companionship and commitment
 
Devotion and honesty of purpose counts

Friendship flourishes with selflessness
Emotions of peace with faith and trust
Thrust of comradeship and togetherness
Grace of God and blessings of elders

Friendship must grow in right atmosphere
Enriching the relationship and bonding
Leaving the cast and creed aside forever
On the principles of humility and humanity

Destined enough to few very good friends
Including childhood and even later on
Always grown coming together of hearts
Let us Charis the bond for life time