Do You practice sex in your car?

 

Then,either you don't have a place of your own or you are in urgency to 'do-it.' 

Either way, there is nothing quite as exciting and spontaneous as lubing your gear shift on four wheels.

 

New to backseat Erotica? 

Keep these tips in mind if you plan to cozy up in your car?

 

Car Sex Positions:

Of course, assuming your car is bigger than a small car or its slightly larger hatchback cousins, there are a number of exciting positions you can enjoy in the comfort of your car.

 

Dashboard Confession:

Tilt the passenger seat and lie straight on your back. Make her sit on top of you, with her back facing you and her hands on the alter... uh I mean dashboard. She will use her hands to push and grind religiously on your lap while you can place your hands on her hips or waist and help her with her efforts. The downside to this position is that has the highest "busted" factor of any position. Because you are both facing the same way you cant see other, like cops, or curious residents who may come up from behind and surprise you. 

Backseat Driver:

The backseat is the ultimate place to be the Road Warrior. One of the most common and my personal favorite positions is backseat woman-on-top. Sit at the center of the backseat while she sits on top of you facing the rear window, holding the back seat for support. While she does all the work humping up and down, you can sit back and enjoy the sensation. It's also the safest position as you've got a set of eyes on either side.

Backseat Missionary:

One of the most obvious positions to get into while doing it in a car is the backseat missionary. You basically get on top of your woman and hump her to glory in the missionary position. However doing it in the backseat will make it difficult for you beat a hasty retreat if and when the need arises.

 

Heading down town:

You don’t even need to stop the car for this. Just keep driving, pull down the zipper and make your girl play with your pecker. But don't get so lost in the sensations, that you lose control of the car and end up having an accident. This is only for extreme, out-of-control moments, we really don't recommend this. The last thing you want is an accident with your pecker hanging loose.

The Grand Prix:

This position is for one of those very kinky moments and when the fear of getting caught is low. It incorporates the Backseat Driver and "cranks it up a notch". In the backseat you push the seats as forward as they will go and even lean them forward toward the dashboard. You will get behind her as she leaves one leg cocked up on the bench seat and one leg is on the floor. You will put yourself in the same position, leaning forward and keeping low in the back as you "bring up the rear".

 

Car Sex Locations:

If you don’t already have a place in mind it would be a good idea to do some preliminary research. Ask your friends about that special place where they got lucky on four wheels without getting hauled up by a cop tapping at their window pane. However mentioned below are some of the most common places to engage in some safe car sex.

Authorized Parking Lots:

If you are both up to the challenge, parking lots can serve as an excellent venue to heat up your engines. However, it always pays to become friends with the guys in charge of the parking lot. A fifty rupee note will ensure that no curious soul comes prying around if your car starts to sway a bit.

 

Random Streets:

Indian cities are blessed with several narrow, over-parked back alleys, where cops seldom frequent. Its best to do your homework first, so drive around the city and check out back alleys, rating them on their seclusion factor. Park your car in a promising alley and count the number of people that frequent it after a certain time of the night. Late at nights the most you'll have to worry about is local security guard.

 

Car Sex Essentials - The 4 'C's

Cash:

Your cards won't be of much help if you have to shove cash up a cops ass to keep him happy. So keep a few crisp hundred rupee bills in your wallet, if you want to engage in safe car sex.

Clothing:

Both of you should be wearing clothes that can be got out off and quickly put back on. Make sure that your jeans aren't too tight and she is wearing a skirt. This will make it easier for you to bone her without having to make her take anything off.

Condom:

Will not only limit the amount of mess you would otherwise have made, but also it will also protect you and your partner from unwanted pregnancies and the dreaded STDs or AIDS. 

Cleanness:

No woman would feel comfortable having sex in a messy, smelly car. Its just a mood killer. So make sure that you give the car a good wash and remove the old gum stuck on the carpeting, before you decide to turn it into a temporary love sa

Stand for One-Night

 Stand for One-night


The term 'one-night stand' comes from the world of showbiz, originally meaning a one- off theatre performance. Those three magic words - 'one', 'night' and 'stand - sound so casual and carefree. But read on, there are five important tips to consider, before starring in a one-night-only hook-up.

Emergency exit

Pre-arrange a call from a trusted dost early in the proceedings. That way, if your date is a crashing bore or potential psychopath, you can make a quick getaway. What? My aged daadi has been rushed to hospital? You want me to come immediately? The phone-a-friend trick can be a timely lifeline.

Money nahi hai to honey hai

The rules of engagement in a one-night stand are simple. There's no question of will they/won't they? The main course on the menu is sex. There's no need to spend your hard-earned rupees on London priced drinks at Tabula Rasa or Shalom. Instead, splash out 10 rupees max on bhel puri, and wash it down with a cholera cocktail of sugarcane juice. Then, the formalities of wining and dining over, make a beeline back to yours for something even spicier.

Help! I've been burgled!

It's Murphy's Law that the only time you score on a night out is when your place looks like it hasn't seen a duster in weeks. The solution is, as you open the door... exclaim in wild surprise that your room has been raided by robbers. Why else would everything be in such disarray? It may work. But might not account for the overflow of old pizza boxes, or the science experiment growing in week-old tea cups.

Emergency contraception

You came. You saw. And you're about to conquer. There's just one final hurdle to get over before you jump into bed. Girls, did you forget to shave your legs before the date? Boys, are you wearing 25-rupee underwear, instead of your Calvin Klein pulling pants? If the answer to the above questions is 'yes', then the emergency contraception worked. Unshaved legs and cheap chaddis are the most effective methods of preventing unwanted pregnancy. Being too embarrassed to get undressed is the ultimate night-before-the-morning-after-pill.

No kismat konnection

Even if the sex was mind-blowing, do remember a one-night stand is just that. One night. Don't go looking for a 'kismat konnection' with your new bedroom buddy. Don't even expect a good morning cup of coffee. Just get up while they're still zedding, hunt around the room for discarded clothing, and escape from the scene of the crime. Now for the hard part.

The walk of shame.

You are dishevelled, bleary-eyed and still half drunk. You are modeling bed head, and you're in totally unsuitable evening wear that gives off the smell of sex and smoke. Respectable Delhiites on their way to work may give you a double take as you slink home. Still, if you got your paisa vasool from the sex, that's worth any amount of curious looks from strangers

Vadic mathod to Convert from Other Number Bases to Decimal System

How to Convert from Other Number Bases to Decimal System?


Questions on conversion of numbers in some base to some other base is very common in competitive examination. Here in this post I present a simple technique to help you do such conversions.

First, let us understand what do we mean by number bases or systems. In our decimal number system, the rightmost position represents the “ones” column, the next position represents the “tens” column, the next position represents “hundreds”, etc. Therefore, the number 123 represents 1 hundred and 2 tens and 3 ones, whereas the number 321 represents 3 hundreds and 2 tens and 1 one.

The values of each position correspond to powers of the base of the number system. So for our decimal number system, which uses base 10, the place values correspond to powers of 10:
... 1000    100       10           1

... 103        102      101         100
Binary to Decimal Conversion

Other number systems use different bases. The binary number system uses base 2, so the place values of the digits of a binary number correspond to powers of 2. For example, the value of the binary number 10011 is determined by computing the place value of each of the digits of the number:

1    0    0    1    1  the binary number

24  23   22   21   20  place values



So the binary number 10011 represents the value

= (1 x 24) + (0 x 23) + (0 x 22) + (1 x 21) + (1 x 20)

= 16 + 0 + 0 + 2 + 1

= 19


Conversion from Other Number Bases to Decimals

The same principle applies to any number base. For example, the number 2132 base 5 corresponds to

2    1    3    2 number in base 5

53   52   51    50  place values

So the value of the number is

(2 × 53) + (1 × 52) + (3 × 51) + (2 × 50)

= (2 × 125) + (1 × 25) + (3 × 5) + (2 × 1)

= 250 + 25 + 15 + 2

= 292

This post is related to a previous post where I have discussed conversion of decimal numbers into other number bases.

Related posts:

    Is 0.999…= 1?
    How to convert from decimal to other number systems
    Decimal Fraction Rules

25 Hindu girls abducted every month in Pakistan

25 Hindu girls abducted every month in Pakistan

01/04/2010 09:00:01  
By Rabia Ali -Karachi

http://www.thenews.com.pk/daily_detail.asp?id=231616



As many as 20 to 25 girls from the Hindu community are abducted every month and converted forcibly, said Amarnath Motumal, an advocate and council member of the Human Rights Commission of Pakistan.

“There is no official record to support this statement, but according to estimates, in Karachi alone, a large number of Hindu girls are being kidnapped on a routine basis,” Motumal told The News. “The families of the victims are scared to register cases against the influential perpetrators as death threats are issued to them in case they raise their voice. So, the victims choose to remain silent to save their lives,” he said.

Motumal said the word ‘Hindu’ had become an insult and a kind of abuse for the Hindu community. “Almost 90 per cent of the Hindu community comprise poor and impoverished families whose needs and rights have been neglected by the ones at the helms of power,” he said, adding that since a majority of the people feel helpless, only a few families come to him with their cases.

A former MPA, Bherulal Balani, said that the Hindu girls, especially the ones belonging to scheduled castes, were mostly being abducted from the Lyari area. “Once the girls are converted, they are then sold to other people or are forced to do illegal and immoral activities,” Balani said. He added the perpetrators were very powerful and that was the reason that no cases were being registered against them.

The number of attacks against the Hindu community has increased in the interior Sindh during the last three months. At least nine incidents have been reported which range from forced conversion of Hindus to rape and murders.

In one incident, a 17-year-old girl ‘K’ was gang-raped in Nagarparker area. In another incident, a 15-year-old girl ‘D’ was allegedly abducted from Aaklee village, Tharparkar, and was forced to convert. About 71 families migrated from the village in protest against the girl’s abduction.

Moreover, the Hindu communities were not even spared on the occasion of their joyous festival of Holi as two girls, Anita and Kishni, were kidnapped in Kotri. Moreover, two Hindu boys, Ajay and Sagar, were abducted from another place on the same day.

One Amir Gul was murdered in the beginning of March in Tando Haider, Umerkot, allegedly by a landlord. Later in the month, a boy, Kishan Kumar, was kidnapped from Kandhkot, Jacobabad.

MPA Pitamber Sewani told The News that these acts were being done by certain elements who believe that these minority communities might support the government in the upcoming local bodies’ elections, and these elements want to harass them.

However, President Pakistan Hindu Council Ramesh Kumar criticised the minorities’ representatives for not raising their voice at relevant forums. He said that they were simply representing their respective parties and not the poor people. He added that poor economic conditions had led to an increase in kidnapping cases in the province, especially in the Kandhkot and Jacobabad areas.

Coordinator HRCP Task Force Sindh Dr Ashothama Lohano told The News the according to their one fact-finding report, the most affected persons of violence belonged to Hindu and Christian communities. He said that various reasons have been cited for this. “The recent wave of extremism is one reason, which has destroyed the harmony of the land of Sufis. Another reason is the destruction of the agriculture sector and small markets that has led to frustration and lawlessness. Yet another reason is that the elected representatives are working only for the party and not for the community,” Dr Lohano added.

He further said that minority communities were easy targets as the Hindus were generally hesitant to raise voice against the injustices. “When the Hindu communities become politically active, they are blamed for having Indian connections,” doctor Lohano said.

Flexi-Sexual

It is the newest ‘s- word’. We had bi-sexual, trans-sexual, homo-sexual, hetero-sexual, metro-sexual.

Now we have a new sword to add to our already overcrowded glossary – flexi-sexual. The word refers to straight women in their 40s who are keen on swinging both ways, but don’t want the bisexual tag. The reason, they say is that women in their 40s are confident of their sexuality and ready to explore new possibilities.

Is it a Celeb Thing

Here’s the truth behind this fascinatingly catchy word. It is being touted as a new term, but it has actually been around for a while. In 2004 the term was mentioned in a blog. Three people have posted definitions of flexi-sexual in The Urban Dictionary back in 2008 and 2009. So why are we talking about it as a trend? Because celebrities have started endorsing it? “In a way, they are poking fun at homosexuals and trivialising their sexuality. They do it to attract attention and have publicists working out the nittygritty of their actions.

 “Once, someone commented on my pictures saying I was ‘sooo hot and sooo pretty’. I found it funny but when I actually thought of experimenting, the idea grossed me out. I looked at her profile, checked her pictures and found she was married with a child,” she says.

Another married girl from Chandigarh started talking dirty  chat after exchanging niceties. “I was shocked and told her I was not her type. Her friend was apparently a lesbian, who was married off at a young age. It was only after her marriage that she discovered she wasn’t really attracted to her husband or any other man. “In a closed society like India, there are people who don’t get a chance to explore their sexuality, which should ideally happen during adolescence.

Twenty-nineyear- old, a business analyst and a mother of two, had often thought of kissing her best gal pal as a teenager just to get an idea of what kissing a boy would be like. “I had a huge crush on a guy in my class, but he was way beyond my reach – he was the school stud. So I often used to wonder what it would be like to kiss him and often thought  of practising it with my best friend, but never tried it. However, I know of girls who have actually tried and are happily leading a heterosexual life. But I don’t think I would be able to kiss a girl.

Sexologists say it is very difficult for a woman who has already led the life of a heterosexual to think the other way in her 40s. “Most women can’t think this way. It is unlikely for a woman who has led a heterosexual life to suddenly switch her preference. There are very few people who would do that. So it is wrong to call it a trend.

Any straight woman or man would find it difficult to make   love to a person of the same sex, if he or she hasn’t had a past experience or hasn’t been fascinated by the idea earlier. “ It can happen only when a person is bisexual. So bisexual and flexi-sexual are one and the same things. If any heterosexual woman fantasises about making love to another woman, she is either a bisexual or is suffering from a thought disorder that indicates the possibility of schizophrenia,” he adds. As far as celebs are concerned, they are humans too. “ They might do it out curiosity or adventure or to make news or under the effect of alcohol. Attraction lies between the two ears and not between your legs. There is a reason why women shy away from the bisexuality tag.

Sexuality has always been taboo all over the world. Women who talk about their sexuality are often looked down upon. “ People who openly used words suffixed with the word ‘ sexual’ are looked down upon. It’s probably the reason why homosexual evolved to the more subtle ‘ gay’ and ‘ lesbian’,” says clinical psychologist.With time women have become bolder and want to explore all the avenues from where they can derive pleasure, but still play safe when it comes to sexuality. “ If they call themselves bisexual, it means they have already made a choice.

If she’s flexi-sexual, she just wants to explore temporarily but has the freedom of coming back to being a heterosexual. Now that’s a good explanation. And the celebrity status might even give them an edge.

Top sex-related myths

                        Top sex-related myths

Do you know everything about sex? Think again for the more someone claims to know, the less they generally do know.

Alicia Stanton, a board-certified OB/GYN and the author of 'Hormone Harmony,' who specializes in treating men and women suffering hormone imbalances, has listed top nine sex-related myths and what the real scoop is about sex, desire, and making it all work, reports the Fox News.

Myth: Interest in sex decreases with menopause.

Reality: Many women maintain hormonal balance and interest in sex through menopause. And, pregnancy and menstruation are no longer a concern, spontaneity can reign. Also, they are typically more confident and knowledgeable about what they want, so sex has the potential to be better than ever.

Myth: The only hormone important for libido is testosterone.

Reality: Although testosterone is very important for libido and sexual function in men and women, other hormones play a part as well. Estrogen is actually very important for desire in both men and women. Also, a high level of cortisol, our "fight or flight hormone," works against libido. If your body thinks that you're running for your life, literally or figuratively, it is not going to be very interested in sex.

Myth: If you're truly in love, desire for sex and high libido should come easily.

Reality: Relationships and making a real connection with someone takes time and energy. Relationships require as much attention as anything about which you are passionate. Focus on keeping your partner and his or her interests high on your priority list and you will find yourself discovering new ways to connect and keep the passion alive.

Myth: If you're healthy, you should want sex all of the time.

Reality: A wide variety in sexual appetite or level of libido exists. The way you know if you're having the "right" amount of sex is if you and your partner are both happy with your level of activity. There's no need to compare yourself to others.

Myth: If you're connected with your partner, you shouldn't have to ask for what you need.

Reality: Even if you and your partner haven't previously spoken much about your sexual relationship, it might be good to start talking. This is especially true if you're entering a new phase of life, including childbirth, menopause, or andropause, often called male menopause. If you begin to notice changes in your body or sexual desire, be sure to let your partner know what's going on. And, remember, communicating about what feels good enhances the experience for both of you.

Myth: Your most important sex organs are "south of the border."

Reality: Although those places are lots of fun, remember that your brain is the biggest sex organ in your body. You always have the ability to choose how you feel and think about sex and your sexuality. The desirability a man or woman feels about himself or herself is a very potent aphrodisiac. If you feel irresistible, your partner will find you irresistible. Passion is contagious!

Myth: If you don't have a partner, there is no sense in having a libido.

Reality: Having a loving relationship with yourself is essential. Even if you don't currently have a partner, feeling sensual and desirable will add passion to many aspects of your life. It takes practice to learn what arouses you and what a potential partner finds arousing. Learning to pleasure yourself is an important skill that you can continue to enjoy on your own, or that you can teach to a partner one day.

Myth: Women are the only ones who have problems with low libido.

Reality: Although the sexual desire disorder known as low libido is more common in women, it occurs in men as well. Some physical causes include alcohol, various medications, stress, hormone imbalances (such as low testosterone), cocaine use, brain tumors that produce the hormone prolactin, diabetes, and other major diseases such as cancer.

Myth: Hormonal issues are the only cause of low libido in women.

Reality: There are hormone imbalances such as low estrogen, low testosterone, hypothyroidism, and high cortisol from stress, but there are many other potential causes as well. Physical problems such as vulvar or vaginal pain or dryness may cause an increase in frustration and reduced libido. Surgery or other major health conditions like cancer, diabetes, high blood pressure or arthritis can also reduce libido.

Some Women Myths

Some Women Myths

Myth_1







 * Women make over to seduce men

Generally women dress for a boost to own confidence levels or to look better than the counterparts


Myth_2

* Women wear lingerie to impress men

They do it to feel and look sexy.


Myth_3

 * Women likes to share feelings

Because they are more of emotional by nature


 Myth_4

* Women wish for bigger breasts

Women do not feel comfortable when focused down the face.


Myth_5  

    * Women possess weaker sex libido than a men

Not true in all cases age and stage of life makes the real difference




Myth_6
  
  * Women have Sex for intimacy and not Satisfaction

again not true in all circumstances and for all women and also to women of all ages and stage of life.


Myth_7

 * Women clings do not provide space to partners

Basically women seek more and sincere attention.


 Myth_8

 * Women are possessive about men

Not only they are possessive about their men even they wish their men also to be possessive about them.
   

   

   

   

   

Levels of Submission

 Levels of Submission




These are the 9 Levels of Submission as written by by Diane Vera and published in The Lesbian S/M Safety Manual. I thought it would be helpful for all to see.

 

1.THE OUTRIGHT NON-SUBMISSIVE MASOCHIST or KINKY SENSUALIST.Not into servitude, humiliation or giving up control; just pain and/or spiced-up sensuality, on the masochist's own terms and for the masochist's own direct pleasure (i.e. turned on solely/mainly by one's own bodily sensatons rather than by being "used" to gratify one's partner's sadism).

 

2.PSEUDO-SUBMISSIVE NON-SLAVE. Not into even playing "slave," but into other "submissive" role-playing, e.g. schoolteacher scenes, infantilism, "forced" transvestism. Usually into humiliation, but NOT into servitude, even in play. Dictates the scene to a large degree.

 

3.PSEUDO-SUBMISSIVE PLAY SLAVE. Likes to play at being a slave; likes to feel subservient; may in some cases like to feel one is being "used" to gratify partner's sadism; may even really serve the dominant in some ways, but only on the "slave's" own terms. Dictates the scene to a large degree; often fetishistic (e.g. foot worshippers).

 

4.TRUE SUBMISSIVE NON-SLAVE. Really gives up control (only temporarily and within agreed-upon limits), but gets her/his main satisfaction from aspects of submission other than serving or being used by the dominant. Usually turned on by suspense, vulnerability, and/or giving up responsbility. Doesn't dictate the scene except in very general terms, but still seek mainly her/his own direct/pleasure (rather than getting one's pleasure mainly from pleasing the dominant).

 

5.TRUE SUBMISSIVE PLAY SLAVE. Really gives up control (though only temporarily; only during brief "scenes" and within limits) and gets main satisfaction from serving/being used by dominant-but only for FUN purposes, usually erotic. May/may not be into pain. If so, is turned on by pain indirectly, i.e. enjoys being the object of one's partner's sadism, on which the submissive places very few requirements or restrictions.

 

6.UNCOMMITTED SHORT-TERM BUT MORE THAN PLAY SEMI-SLAVE. Really gives up control (usually within limits); wants to serve and be used by the dominant; wants to provide practical/non erotic as well as fun/erotic services; but only when the "slave" is in the mood. May even act as a full-time slave for, say, several days at a time, but is free to quit at any time (or at the end of the agreed upon several days). May or may not have long-term relationship with one's Mistress, but, either way, the "slave" has the final say over when she will serve.

 

7.PART-TIME CONSENSUAL-BUT REAL SLAVE. Has an ongoing commitment to an owner/slave relationship and regards oneself as the dominant's property at all times. Wants to obey and please dom(me) in all aspects of life-practical/non erotic and fun/erotic. Devotes most of time to other commitments (e.g. job) but Dom(me) has first pick of the slave's free time.

 

8.FULL-TIME LIVE IN CONSENSUAL SLAVE. Within no more than a few broad limits/requirements, the slave regards herself/himself as existing solely for the Dom(me)'s pleasure/well being. Slave in turn expects to be regarded as a prized possession. Not much different from the situation of the traditional housewife, except that within the S/M world the slave's position is more likely to be fully consensual, especially of the slave is male. Within the S/M world, a full time "slave" arrangement is entered into with an explicit awareness of the magnitude carefully, with more awareness of the magnitude of power that is being given up, and hence is usually entered into much more carefully, with more awareness of the possible dangers, and with much clearer and more specific agreements than usually precede the traditional marriage.

 

9.CONSENSUAL TOTAL SLAVE WITH NO LIMITS. A common fantasy ideal which probably doesn't exist in real life (except in authoritarian religious cults and other situations where the "consent" is induced by brainwashing and/or social or economic pressures, and hence isn't fully consensual). A few S/M purists will insist that you aren't really a slave unless you're willing to do absolutely anything for your Dom(me), with no limits at all. I've met a few people who claimed to be no-limit slaves, but in all cases I have reason to doubt the claim.

The facts about the city of Bangalooru_Yaduvanshi

The facts about the city of Bangalooru:

NAME: The original name of Bangalore is said to be derived from "benda kalooru", or "town of boiled beans", because a 14th-century Yaduvanshi king -- exhausted during a hunt -- was fed boiled beans by a villager where the city now stands. In November 2006 Bangalore changed its name to its vernacular original Bengalooru.

HISTORY: Kempe Gowda, a feudal Yaduvanshi chief, is regarded as the founder of the city. He enclosed the first major settlements in the area within a mud fort that was built in 1537.

-- In the 19th century, the British wrested control of the territory from Tipu Sultan, and established south India's largest cantonment there. After independence, the federal government invested heavily to make Bangalore an industrial and educational centre.

GEOGRAPHY: Located on the southern Deccan Plateau at an altitude of 920 metres, Bangalore is the administrative and commercial capital of Karnataka and has an area of 225 square km.

POPULATION: 7.2 million, of whom just 38 percent are native Kannada speakers, the main language of Karnataka. Tamil and Telugu speaking groups are substantial minorities while there has been a sizeable influx of Hindi speakers from the northern states in recent years.




ECONOMY: Today, Bangalore is one of the world's most prominent centres for software development and is the hub of India's aerospace, electronics and biotechnology industries.

-- Touted as the Silicon Valley of India, Bangalore is home to software giants Wipro Technologies and Infosys Technologies Ltd., and has a budding biotech sector industry.

-- Known as the world's "back office," Bangalore accounts for a third of India's $41 billion software exports.

-- About 1,500 technology and business process outsourcing companies employ nearly 400,000 people.

-- The city is also home to about 1,000 garment units which employ over 300,000 people, earning export revenues of more than $1 billion annually.

Romancing Your Way Into Having More Sex

Romancing Your Way Into Having More Sex

There seems to be a fairly clear pattern within a married couple's sex life. While many people say it will never happen to them, this is usually during the honeymoon stage and then over time, life takes over. At some point with in the relationship a couple has less and less sex.

For the man this becomes a huge issue. They find that they are more desperate for sex. I once read that this is like baseball. The more times he strikes out the more balls he lobbies toward home plate with the hopes that one of them will get through. Whether or not that analogy makes complete sense or not, many guys are probably agreeing.

What happens Many people don't understand why their sex life slows down. Often this happens as life takes over. Romance is no longer as important, instead there is the house hold chores, work, and even kids. If kids are involved this often becomes a huge issue. Life becomes stressful and overwhelming. With that in mind many guys approach sex (which is admittedly important to them) in the wrong way to make it easy for a woman. With everything going on in life, it often feels like sex is just one more chore in the long list of things to do.

So, how can a guy change his approach and his methods to get more sex While sex is important to the guy, he should try and put it on the back burner. Sure he wants more. Sure every day would be better then once a week or once every other week. But if he focuses on it then it will be easier for her to focus on it. She won't be focusing on it in a positive way either!

Once you have put sex on the back burner, then you can work on making it easier for your wife to want sex. Sure, I can provide a lot of suggestions, but you will have to work with them to fit them in with your life and your wife. After all, no two women are the same.

1)Take time to communicate. Yep, I know that guys just aren't talkers. But women are. In fact, they feel a deepening sense of connection when they know what you are thinking and feeling. Don't panic, I know that you are thinking, Oh no, she said put sex on the back burner! So, you may be thinking about sex, but your should also talk to your wife. Tell her how you are feeling. Tell her what you want out of life, what you are hoping for the future, and how she makes you feel.

1.5)Take time to listen. Talking is only one half of communicating. You also need to listen to what she has to say. Show you are listening and that you care. You are working at building a deeper relationship with your wife, something you should work at every day.

2)Take time for a little romance. Romance is something most guys do before marriage, but quite shortly after. Once they have her hooked, why bother. Well, the answer often lies in how romance makes a woman feel. For some women it is small gifts, others just need a hug now and then, some love flowers (that would be me), and still others need you to do a few things for them to make them feel good.

3)Say, I love you in a hundred different ways. This can be complicated. However, you can say I love you (which is important for most women to hear even if you don't really like saying it), but you should also be working to show it. This can be in doing the dishes, helping with the kids, and offering a back rub.

4)Take time to date. Dating can help marriages a lot. With kids, jobs, and a whole host of things to do it can be hard, but it is well worth it. Take the time to date. If you have kids at home and can't get away then you should date at home. Find out more tips for that at How to Date Without a Sitter . Taking the time to date can be helpful in a lot of different ways...trust me.

5)Spend time working your wife over with love. At first she is probably going to think you are trying to get some. However, over time you will make her feel warm and fuzzy and on days she isn't tired she may very well initiate sex. This is the bonus for you. You can improve your relationship and get more of what you really want.

6) Be willing to talk about sex with your wife. Find out what she wants, what she likes, what she dislikes, and other information regarding sex. Share with her these things as well. If you open up this area of your life you may find that you have a lot more fun with your spouse and that you are pleasuring them more as well.

Getting sex doesn't have to be a game. But if you do play by her rules, then you will find the experience more pleasurable for both of you. Find out what makes her feel loved and makes her feel the most connected with you and you will score much more often!

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